#boyish girlie girl

[hotmonkeelove]

My gender expression, also my past life:

[story-book-sillies]

The “girl who grew up as a tomboy and liking “boy things” to trying to reclaim her femininity through her regression” pipeline is so real

[celestiansui]

taller cheerleader!reader x smaller soccer player!hazel callahan

[sp00ky-scary]

Can I make Bloom trans masc or would that somehow be controversial

[franollie]

this is going to be on my mind forever

[yume-fanfare]

something about hina's characterization is that he's both girlish and boyish. boyish in a girl way if you will but you can't really forget one or the other. And sometimes mellow when the situation calls for it but it has to be a rare occurrence or else it won't be significative, that's the fun part of the quiet moments like in tetora's fs1. engstars is lacking when it comes to her theatrics though 💔

[oohbuggypie]

ANY DISCO X HEIKE FANS UPP i just got such a cute fun idea THAT I WANT TO EXECUTE NYEOWWW . not going 2 cuz it's really hard imo actually BUT EEEEEEEEEEEE ITS MAKING ME SO EXCITED . Disco takes Heike out to the dance floor on date nights super often and both their favorite parts are getting all dressed up and getting pretty pictures taken of them 🩷

[xferal-fairyx]

[spokenlikeatruequeer]

Reblogging straight sex doesn't mean I wanna fuck you, dude. I just like watching porn like the rest of us 🤷🏾 Please leave me alone.

[dangans-ur-ronpas]

i read 'the gender of mona lisa' and i feel. both extremely seen and yet incredibly infuriated

[toytulini]

i want to put the dungeon meshi squad into the leviathan series and see what happens

[anthyies]

parents are fascinating you will have not worn a dress since high school prom and they will be like but you should shave your legs! what if you want to wear a dress!

[sugaroto]

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If someone tells you their name is [name], then that's their fucking name. Stop trying to find out what "their actual name" is

So-

I'm having a birthday party this Saturday, (it's also a friend's nameday and we decided to celebrate it together) So we made a group chat with everyone to invite them.

We mostly have common friends so like, approximately 10 of the kids are our common friends, 5 are mine and 5 are hers

But it's cool cause we all go to the same school so yknow, not everyone is that close but we'll manage

Except one person, I invited someone that my classmates don't know, actually 2 of them know this person and have been friends for years (I met this person through them) and my best friend has also met this person one or twice

So we're gonna name this person Bob, so, Bob is not a greek name.

Today one of my friends was like who is this "usernameman guy?"

And she was talking with my friend who's met the guy and my friend was like his name is Bob

But she was like "There's no way his name is bob" so that's why they called me and asked me what usernameman's name actually was and I'm like "it's bob"

"But how can it be bob? His parents named him that?"

"That's what he introduced himself to me as. I guess it may be a nickname but that's how people call him so"

"Well I'm gonna call him Mpampi then"(or something very greek starting with the letter of the guy's actual name)

"His name is Bob"

...

Like. Ok. I know- I can tell, Bob is not the name he was given by his parents, I know his very greek last name. I've overheard people calling him by a different Greek name.

Still. He introduced himself as Bob. Their Instagram bio has "Call me Bob, they/she/he" and fanart with the non binary flag as a photo profile

In greek you can't really refer to someone with they/them so they're always referred with he/him pronouns (tho I've noticed sometimes they use feminine words for themselves like καλή) honestly I've been meaning to ask if they would also like to be called η Bob instead of ο Bob etc

My friend dropped the subject assuming I just don't know "his actual name"

But later as we were waiting for the bus one of their friends (I mentioned above I met this person through 2 other people) was there so my friend was like "oh he must know! [Dude] do you know what is usernameman's name?"

And all 3 of us(me, dude and my best friend) replied together that it's Bob

"That can't be his name! Dude whats his name?"

Dude: "it's... Bob"

"Are you kidding me how can it be Bob?!"

At that point my best friend snapped like "What's gotten into you my[girl]? Can you just drop it? The human is named bob" (Μπομπ τον λένε τον άνθρωπο, sounds more friendly in greek)

At that time Dude's parents arrived so he left but I saw his face. He didn't want to have that conversation

I'm sure he knows "his actual name" since they've been friends for years

But if the person introduces themselves as fucking Bob then call them Bob, why you gotta ask everyone

[idontliketomatoesleavemealone]

Since when tf is Trixi „boyish“

[starlit-mansion]

i guess i think about "gender neutral" names a lot because of my mountains of ocs (i actually had to do some contorting with some of them because i was running out of free spots without conflicting with my other ocs or fandom names), and i was specifically thinking about mine (because i have to abandon the brief charm of being unintentionally misgendered by office ladies in the 90s because tbh shannon hasn't been a boyish name for a long time), and then i got actually served an article about it from my browser that uh. man actually a lot of names that read girly to our modren sensibilities were quite masculine 3 or 4 generations ago, and names that get too much girl on them almost never go back to neutral or masculine, and you really only have an enduring neutral name if there's relative demographic parity, like "alex."

guess i never realized that that's the way it goes

[generallyunskilled]

When I was like seven or so I was like “sigh… I wanna wear sonic clothes but they only make them for boys…” and my mom was like “you can shop in the boys section. I’ll buy you boys clothes, I’ve never had a problem with it before and you wear boys hand me downs from your cousin all the time. Did someone make fun of you for wearing boys clothes or something? There’s no rules about who can wear what clothes.” And she was all concerned I was being bullied or worse put down by a teacher (my teacher would never).

However, what I really was like in my head:

“The sonic shirts in the boys section only come in really gross shades of blue and green, super obnoxious stuff that doesn’t match any of my clothes. And boys t-shirts are always scratchy and never the nice soft stretchy stuff they make for girls. Boys clothes also look really baggy on me even if I get a small size, so I could never wear them with my skirts and if I can’t wear a sonic shirt with my cutest skirt than what’s the point. Also they don’t make shirts with Amy Rose on them because they hate girls.” But I was like seven and not the greatest at articulating my thoughts and just denounced them as ugly (these shirts were ugly tho, have you ever seen what boys clothes in 2009 looked like) but my mom was always convinced I had for some reason sworn off boys clothing due to outside influences.

I just wanted fashionable clothes because I was actually insane about fashion and styling clothes at seven years old. But I guess parents aren’t the greatest at understanding kids can have a solid fashion sense of their own besides having a favorite color and maybe a preference to dress girly or tomboyish.